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on Powerlessness: History Repeated (pt. 3)

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

I recently read a section in Charlotte Kasl’s book Women, Sex, and Addiction that perfectly describes my state of being as my second major affair started manifesting. Under the title “Codependency with secret Addictive Behavior”, Kasl writes that “after years of playing a role that leaves them spiritually empty, [women] fill their longing for car [...]

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Living Alone in an Empty House

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

“One reason addict-codependent relationships get so out of hand is that those involved in them fail to realize that they are using sex and security to create or supply a missing [parental] bond. Sexually addicted adults are essentially children hiding out in grown-up bodies, hungrily seeking parents to love them unconditionally… not knowing oneself and [...]

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Can’t find the gorgeous words.

Monday, December 21, 2009

I’ve been with both M. and D. in the last month and I’m not sure if I’ve changed the sheets. How cheeky of me. I’d like to tell you with a big sheepish grin on my face, just to show you how silly I’ve been. Oh Well! would describe my facial expression, pressed lips and [...]

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Grappling

Thursday, December 17, 2009

I first saw M. on stage during an obscure play in a bad neighborhood. I was immediately piqued by his good looks, but my thoughts didn’t cross over into sexual territory at the time. Well, honestly, I don’t quite remember if I considered whether or not I would sleep with him, but I should leave room for [...]

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